Monday, 30 October 2017

MySoulmateOfBooks

It was a fine Sunday morning of the year 1998/1999, I was particularly happy because the previous night my parents had bought one of my favorite books without even me asking for it. It is not that I never asked for anything, but I was never very demanding particularly. It was kept on the dressing table of my parent's room, and I took it with me in my room and slept with it beside my pillow.  The book made me even happier because previous to that week I saw it in my cousin's place and since then I was craving for it.

...continuing with my happy mood, I lied down on my bed after the wonderful breakfast of "luchi-torkari" (a common Sunday Bengali breakfast) with my dearest book and the whole morning went away in a wink. As the afternoon was about to approach, I was approached by my mother first, stating very gently and logically that the particular book which I was reading was not at all for me but for a family friend because it was his child's birthday and we had been invited; but she promised me that she will buy me another copy of it.

Unlike what the Bengali stereotypes suggest I was raised in a family where books were not the first thing that comes to  the mind when gifts was thought of (except for my mother and I), and so in the same way, no one remembered that once upon a time I gave away a book that was dear to me. And honestly for any child of that age the book that contains Collection of stories and poems of Sukumar Roy (Sukumar RachanaSamagra) would be no less that the "Lost Ark".

...but ...as the phrase says Better late than never; she bought it, this time for me, as promised...and that moment was  one of my top 5 happiest moments of life; not just because it is a great book but also because I somehow felt that I found a long lost friend after 15 years.

Since then, I have read from its cover to cover for atleast 10 times if not more.
It has been my constant source of laughter and innocence whenever I am upset after a bad day or just missing my old self. It provides a sense of calm and belonging that injects in me the purpose and power for waking up tomorrow. It is a lot to expect from a book which is about flying cows, talking cat and giraffe headed lions, but then, it is one of a kind!

Today it is the 130th birthday of this amazing Indian Bengali humorous poet, story-teller, painter, playwright, cartoonist and a whole form of institution that lived in Bengali literature.

A very happy birth-anniversary to  Sukumar Roy...
He came....He made us laugh....He went! And no matter where he is today, I am sure, he still is continuing with his work............

Thank you for giving us a wonderful childhood, which still resides in each of us and will dwell there forever!

#StayBlessed


Saturday, 14 October 2017

The burnt bridges

When you have covered a considerable portion of your life, you are eligible of thinking the bridges you have burnt, the people you have hurt, the relations you have trampled....
But no matter how much you re live the past, you cannot erase what you have crossed...and honestly, you knew then also that it will never be the same....

Yet I somehow know that, there remains a pair of eyes....a gal and a guy, who knew me better then me.....
Yet I write,
Because everyday I fight,
With me, for you...
...And I wish you didn't mean,
Everything...
For I could only pray, beyond the oceans, that you stay the guardian angel as you always have been...

#StayBlessed



Wednesday, 11 October 2017

Indifferent!

Life will give you numerous moments to loose your temper..
To bring out the worst version of you...
To react to people's indifference...
...Specially when you are down..

...Don't give those people the pleasure of the particular reaction which they are expecting..
People assume when they don't have the facts..And you are not responsible to lay all your cards on the table...because no matter what, people will assume whatever will deem them comfortable, which is okay because everyone is fighting their battle and trying to survive. 
The only concern you should have is to how you behave especially at a time when you are most vulnerable...
The only thing that will matter in years to come will be what kind of a person you have been your entire life...We all have our meltdowns, the important thing is to channelise those so that knowingly we don't hurt anyone....
Even if you do not succeed a couple of times, never stop trying..For your inner peace, if not for anything else!

People don't remember lavish things but always remember how you made them feel..

Don't make anyone else's indifference towards you make you a different person! ☺️

#StayBlessed


Tuesday, 10 October 2017

Dugga_Dugga

Durga Pujo is not just a festival, it's a cocktail of emotions..Because She is not only the goddess but a family member who once a year visit us with her children and then return to her in-laws after 10 days in Kailash Parvat..

Over the years memories have been made at this time of the year..
Gathering of old friends...Making of new ones...Exploring new roads...Getting lost in the crowd together...Enjoying a hot cup of tea at 2 in the morning...
All these feelings and nostagias add to her home coming which makes it special and even more difficult to bid her adiue....
#TravelSafe #TillNextTime

#StayBlessed


Down the memory lane

Life started here..
Over the years, everything changed. Building, campus, surroundings, playground.

The school grew and with it, we did as well.

But walking for the first time through a door and witnessing a room full of benches and desks and blackboard and strange faces staring at each other; never new that those will be a part of me and the four walled room will be the world for the coming 14 years of my life.

I got my first guy friend here.
I got my first hand made greeting card here.
I got scared here.
I got bullied here.
And even I got saved here.
I argued with my closest friends,
I played with them.
I fell down and yet stood up with a brave face, hiding my blood soaked socks and helped my friend to get first aid as she was also bleeding heavily.
I came to know that teachers can be friends too.
Whooshing through the knee deep of flood water, enjoyed a rainy day, by playing in the classroom all day through.

Buying new notebooks from the counter to eating from the school canteen;
From grudgingly attending a class because none of my friends were there, to sharing news of my new born baby brother; there are unending memories entangled with each and every brick of this building.
No matter what happens to it in due course of time, it will always be the most exciting 6 years of my childhood!

#StayBlessed