Friday, 31 May 2019

#HostelDiaries

One cloud covered, storm approaching afternoon seemed like the appropriate one for us to visit the Ganga ghat (Ganges). Assi, being the nearest one was our obvious choice.
We were four people.....Let's just say some of us were ready in minutes and had to force the rest...
But the afternoon succeeded by the evening was amazing. The clouds, the strong breeze with the wind from the Ganga was just perfect.
Sipping lemon tea, those stairs will forever remember our laughs!

#StayBlessed

Friday, 17 May 2019

The End!

I have always had a finite number of people in my life.
The rest of my life had always been occupied by my self-knitted world, which obviously includes "books" and more recently for the past decade "movies" and "TV series". I am not a soap opera kind of person. Daily life drama doesn't intrigue me, because if you look around you have enough of those already.
I am more skewed towards the genre of comedy and thriller with the occasional curiosity for science fiction and fantasy.
When a book ends, there comes an emptiness that can only be felt by a few people who has an over active imagination.
The collapse back to reality takes a bit of getting used to!
This happens even when a favorite TV series comes to an end, or when a movie franchise, who has been a part of not only your adult life but also your childhood through various cartoons, decides to end their game.

Appreciation and criticism are the parts of life but that can not take away the feeling when I gasped and laughed and feared together with the characters, while watching them. It was like being in the same room with them.

All those times when the day did not turn as I anticipated, the world of queens and dragons or sometimes a gang of nerdy scientists made me forget all about it.

In the last few years (that includes last couple of days) I have said goodbyes to some of the virtual relations who proved more real at times, when the real ones were not around.

All of them taught me something!
As Tagore once said that if you search with your heart and soul, there is knowledge in simplest of places like in ashes.
Every time a part of me faded as they ended but every time I gained a new part in me:


The Harry Potter series : There is magic in everything. All your quirks someday will lead you where you are meant to be.

FRIENDS : (although I watched its re-runs, it still felt real when the last episode ended)
No matter how different you are and how good and bad your day was, there are people in your life who will make fun of you but will always stand by you and your choices, no matter what. People who will support you in public, but also correct you in private so that next time you do not make a fool of yourself.
Love comes in different forms but eventually friendship wins!!

SHERLOCK HOLMES TV Series : Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth. Do not just see; observe.

White Collar : Partnership, no matter what kind it is, based solely on trust and nothing else. There is a pinch of goodness in a con man as well, one just need to find a right partner to bring that out!

Castle : When logic defies you, search for the story because no matter how strange it is, there is a story that binds everything and everyone...always!

VEEP : The satirical enactment of the political system of the world, and the fact that Power and Conscience do not go hand in hand!

The Big Bang Theory : It is okay to be different and slow in terms of the choices that you make in life. It is okay to be nerdy, it is okay to follow a different path and it is okay to do something that few people understand and accept as a career.
It is okay to be a researcher whose last few experiments were inconclusive. And most importantly it is okay to not be okay with yourself at times as long as you have people around you who whether they understand you or not will be there to distract your mind and help you make a fresh start tomorrow.

The Avenger movie series : Superheroes are people who faced situations that were not possible to live through yet survived and came out stronger.

Game Of Thrones (2days left for he final episode) : Family is the most important thing in the world. No matter where you go and how much knowledge you gain, at the end of the day if that is not used to protect your family, it is of no use. Power is nothing (even if Cersie said otherwise), if you do not have your family to support and rejoice with you.
Do not just be clever. be wise!

I will obviously watch and re-watch everyone of these but the feeling that there will never be another again, is somewhat heart breaking.

.......as Tony said, "part of the journey is the end".

|| So here's to them who made the reel real.
...so that life is a little easy to deal.
Out there is another you.
...who is in a dire need of a friend like you.
Match your quirks with another one.
...and life, as impossible as it may seem, will be fun.
In all of you I found that space,
...that slowed me down and taught me to look around in this race.||

To all the sad fans out there,
Sunset is the proof that endings can be beautiful too but let's just hope that the endings will bring new beginnings soon enough!

#StayBlessed!

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Tuesday, 14 May 2019

ཨོཾ་མ་ཎི་པ་དྨེ་ཧཱུྃ


ཨོཾ་མ་ཎི་པ་དྨེ་ཧཱུྃ (OmManiPadmeHum)
“Be pure in body mind and speech. Follow the path of wisdom with love and compassion. Be conscious of yourself and your actions.”
It's not just a mantra but a way of life. 

Life is too short to be at war.
Forgive someone, if you can, not because that person deserves your forgiveness but because you need closure and inner peace. Love all but first learn to love yourself, because you need it more than anyone. 
To be content with what you have, and to be at peace with yourself are some of the biggest and yet most insignificant struggles of our lives.
The truth is that your actions are your own, it will effect only you and no one else, because everyone is busy fighting their own battles. No one will understand why you did what you did and it doesn't matter. So own what you do and do something that will positively shape your life.

I have always wanted to buy a Tibetan prayer wheel (or JopJontro as said in Bengali), since I read "Gangtok e Gondogol" (Trouble in Gangtok) by Satyajit Ray.
Recently I possessed one and the rush of childhood memories got mixed with my fondness for Buddhist philosophies.
Right now we are inseparable and I'm loving it!

#StayBlessed


Thursday, 9 May 2019

২৫শে বৈশাখ

তুমি না থাকলে প্রেম টা ঠিক বিদ্রোহী হতো না।
তুমি না থাকলে বিরহ টা আরো কঠিন হতো।
তুমি না থাকলে পাগলা হওয়া টা আমার বন্ধু হতো না।
তুমি না থাকলে বৃষ্টি টা খুব একা হতো।

শুভ ২৫শে বৈশাখ।

শুভ জন্মদিন রবি ঠাকুর।
ভালো থেকো।



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The Tagore Tale!

According to Bengali calendar Rabindranath Tagore's birthday falls on 25th of Baisakh; which varies in between 7th to 9th of May, as per the English calendar.
...This year, it is today!

For the world He is a Nobel laureate, novelist, poet, story-teller and a literary institution as a whole.
However, I have a very special relationship with him.
He is my first love.
I was born almost 5 decades after He died, yet till today everything He wrote seems so relevant to me.
He understood women like no one. May be that is one of the reasons I fell in love, because He wrote characters beyond His time.
When ever I have a question, He has an answer for it, in one of his thousands of writings, for sure. You just have to find it.

Like everyone He was flawed in many sense and the best part is He wrote it himself. He put forward his cons and urged his readers to be aware of it!

He lies in every mood.
He resides in every thought.
He runs through the blood.

By his writing, he will be relevant in years to come as he was yesterday and as he is today!
That is what is great about him.
....and that is what makes him human and I will love him for that!

Happy Birthday Dear Mr.Tagore


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