To be or not to be!

Loving is easy.

I don't know why people fight it.

It makes you a kinder and a gentler person.

Loving someone without any expectation is one of the powerful feelings in the world, not because any cheesy movie dialogue said so, but for the simple reason that it just feels good to look at the person you love and know that they are happy! In addition to that, you know that you are also being loved, may not be in the conventional way that everyone talks about but in an emotionally intimate way that no one can expect!

It's a good feeling..

Love will always tend to bring out the better side of you..

The side that knows what should and should not be done..

If it is bringing out a bitter side, it can not be love.

It can be any number of things but not love. Never love!

If you are realizing that just thinking about it making your blood boil and making you throw things, it is not love.

However our society made us believe that that's the feeling of passion. It's not. Passion is as misunderstood as love.

Destroying mental peace is neither passion nor love.

Understanding that, may take time.

Make sure that when finally you understand that, not much is destroyed so that the love and respect that was valued in the first place can be restored!

Do not impose or expect that the love that was, will be exactly the same, exactly the same moment you walk in again!

Love doesn't change, expression of love does with time and circumstances; so do people, to survive.

Make sure the goodness still exist, the admiration still exists, the care still exists.....As for the rest of it, if time took it away, it will be brought back!

Distance yourself from people who bring out any uneasy negative feeling in you..Give time, it takes over everything..

But never be indifferent. 

Trying to feel nothing is much more painful than pain itself.

Don't be the person you despise.

I wrote today because for last few days, for whatever reasons, I can feel negativity in me. With everything going around, the death of a favorite person did not help the situation. 

It's silly..It's stupid..Be what may...It's what I am feeling...

And I realized that this is the only place where I can be myself!

p.s. I have started this blog in a whimsy, few years back but eventually it had turned into my sandbag. I am a kind of person who holds every emotion in, which only comes out in writing. And more than anything else, I hold grudges, that's just me. But the problem lies with the fact that the grudges I hold affect me more since I do not do anything with them. The most I can do is write a long and wide message venting out just 1% of it and that's just it.

For me, loving comes easy, as long as it is not myself!

That's bad.

I know!

Whatever I write here, are my very own feelings and more often than not I speak to myself as I have no misconception of being sorted. Moreover, when I say that I have faced difficulties and sure will face again, I don't mean that no one else has. It's just that it's my journey hence it's my faulty narrative!

#StayBlessed